well this is going to be short and sweet, i hate the way i look. Being as old as i am this will never change..... i try to feel sexy and look sexy but putting lipstick on a Rottweiler will only get you so far...... sorry everybody but i hate the way look
Fully agree with what has been said. About the "This is never going to change" business: It's easy to change things like hairstyle or clothing. And it can be a lot of fun to try out a new style or two. Another relatively easy (compared to diet and exercise) thing is to try to smile more (if you don't do that already). Take pictures of yourself whenever you are happy. Look at them. You might just develop a new attitude toward yourself. I've seen quite a few people who were not conventionally attractive but made more than up for it by being fun. I'm not saying that this is the only way but it seems to me like a particularly easy way to gradually change how you feel about yourself and how others will react.
i'm not a professional counselor in any way, but being unable to look at yourself in a mirror suggests something that a *good* professional should be able to work with you about?
and on a whim, i typed "i hate to look at myself in the mirror" into google and found several links: